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What does it take to have a relationship that works?

This is a very good question. What makes a relationship work can be a number of different factors depending upon what your partner values in the relationship. In fact even as different people have different needs, the targeted needs may evolve over a period of time to depending on the changes happening in the couple's lives.

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There are many factors that I believe can be addressed to meet the changing needs of the couple. These factors can be addressed through practical suggestions that I will outline here.

1. Talk to your partner regularly about their day.

2. Listen to your partner

3. Support your partner.

1. Talk to Your Partner

Communication is a powerful way to maintain connection and build resilience against the winds of change. It may seem like a little thing but I assure you that it is not. Countless studies have been done on communication and the positive effects of having great communication skills.

2. Listen to Your Partner

Listening to your partner may seem like an easy thing to do but sometimes it's not so easy. Especially when you are weighed down with problems of your own. Take the time to slow down and listen to the concerns of your partner. Mastery of relationship skills can make a world of difference as you engage each other on a daily basis.
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3. Support Your Partner

Often relationships can be impacted by not knowing how exactly to support your partner. Supporting your partner is different from communicating with your partner or understanding how to listen to your partner. It comes from a place of genuinely understanding your partners need. Be there for your partner understanding the balance between support and your personal obligations. Sometimes there is a rift between the two. Finding common ground and learning to negotiate the expectations set between you and you partner can help you to be more effective in the support you both give and receive from your partner.

Sometimes supporting your partner means being able to have resources available to you that can help you both stay well rounded in your mutual supports to one another. Immerse yourself in couple's education, training and supports that help you resolve the deficits in your relationship. (Join our Happy Marriage Pact Online Community)