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Relationship Enhancement Activities​

Individual Assignments

​Breaking Old Habits
Communication
Coping Skills
Attending
Reflective Listening
Supportive Language
Anger Management
Anxiety Management
Thought Management
Self-Regulation
Exit Strategies
Self-Care
Support Systems
Triggers
Conflict Resolution


Couple Assignments
Learning Collaboration
Recognizing Your Partner's Attempts to Connect
Intimacy, Barriers to Intimacy, and Strategies to Enhance Intimacy
Supportive Language vs Hurtful Language
Setting Expectations, Setting Limits, Rules of Engagement
Constructive Feedback vs Criticism
​Boundaries
Assertiveness
Models of Healthy Relating: Bonding vs Boundaries, Johari's Window, 
​Time Management
Check-in's
Developing Trust 
Routines
Rituals
Redefining Cultural Norms for Relationships Adjusting to Change
Safety Planning
Alcohol, Substance Use and Relationships
Stress Management

Conflict Resolution (Couples Exercise)
Soul Gazing (Couples Exercise)
Couples Journal (Couples Exercise)
Love Mapping (Couples Exercise)







Should I Stay in a relationship I am unhappy with?
My Answer: Let's explore this concern from a different angle. Maybe this unhappiness is telling you more
than "It's not working."  How you feel in the relationship matters but your relationship's sustainability
is not based on just feelings.

Take a brief moment to complete my form exploring common relationship challenges. 
Make a note of challenges that fit your concerns. Submit your request to meet with me via the contact form. If you would like to speak with me sooner please feel free to contact me at (405)821-8182 to discuss how the services I provide for couples may be a good fit for you. 

Being in practice for over 18 years has afforded me both experience and education needed towards guiding couples through strained times. My specialized training includes GOTTMAN, CBT, and Christian Counseling towards helping a couple resolve their challenges.   


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Calvin Smith, MA, LPC

Founder of Happy Marriage Pact

I'm Calvin Smith and I am a father, son, uncle, friend, and an ordained Christian counselor. I have been divorced and remarried, going in an out of court custody cases, traversing multi-state relationships, overcoming health conditions and now I am happily married.

Along with my personal experiences in relationship, I have completed a masters degree in Christian Counseling from Oral Roberts University, a second Masters in Industrial Organizational Psychology from the University of Tulsa, and a third masters degree in Rehabilitation Psychology from the University of Wisconsin Madison.  My passion is to bring both academic and personal insights into developing healthy relationships. 
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Come join me for a live on Facebook or schedule an appointment to talk with a client that has many experiences to add a community that promotes relationship health. 

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Exploring Togetherness Together

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Sign up for my couples course called, “The Book of Us”. This is an interactive course that will guide you through 17 couple activities. Get started today. ​

The Book of Us - Couples Course

Would you like more information? Call  (405)821-8182 for a free 10 minute consultation. 
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