FAQ
Happy Marriage Pact offers a variety of support services with your unique challenges in mind. These services include private individual and couples counseling, workshops tailored to your relationship needs, and dating assignments that challenge your relationship skills as you develop healthier connections to each other.
What is happy Marriage Pact?
The Happy Marriage Pact is a structured, intentional agreement or framework designed to help couples build, protect, and enjoy a thriving relationship. It emphasizes commitment, mutual growth, emotional safety, and practical strategies that sustain marital success over time. Whether used in premarital counseling, relationship workshops, or marriage enrichment programs, the Happy Marriage Pact serves as both a relational compass and covenant.
🔹 Core PurposeTo establish shared values, expectations, and intentional habits that strengthen connection, improve communication, resolve conflict healthily, and deepen intimacy—spiritually, emotionally, and practically.
🔹 Key Components of the Happy Marriage Pact
🔹 Core PurposeTo establish shared values, expectations, and intentional habits that strengthen connection, improve communication, resolve conflict healthily, and deepen intimacy—spiritually, emotionally, and practically.
🔹 Key Components of the Happy Marriage Pact
- Shared Vision & Goals
- Couples identify their long-term vision and purpose together.
- Includes spiritual, family, financial, and personal growth goals.
- Couples identify their long-term vision and purpose together.
- Commitment to Communication
- A pledge to open, honest, and respectful dialogue.
- Conflict resolution strategies are included to prevent emotional erosion.
- A pledge to open, honest, and respectful dialogue.
- Emotional & Physical Intimacy
- Agreements on how to nurture emotional closeness and physical connection.
- Includes date night commitments, intimacy check-ins, and vulnerability safety.
- Agreements on how to nurture emotional closeness and physical connection.
- Spiritual Unity
- For faith-based couples, a covenant to pray together, worship together, and keep God at the center of their marriage.
- For faith-based couples, a covenant to pray together, worship together, and keep God at the center of their marriage.
- Accountability & Growth
- Regular review checkpoints to assess how the marriage is doing and how each partner is growing.
- Could involve check-ins, couple’s counseling, or mentor couples.
- Regular review checkpoints to assess how the marriage is doing and how each partner is growing.
- Protection Boundaries
- Agreements on how to protect the relationship from external threats (e.g., inappropriate relationships, poor boundaries, work-life imbalance).
- Agreements on how to protect the relationship from external threats (e.g., inappropriate relationships, poor boundaries, work-life imbalance).
- Joy & Fun
- A reminder that marriage should include celebration, adventure, play, and shared laughter.
- A reminder that marriage should include celebration, adventure, play, and shared laughter.
what services does happy mArriage Pact offer?
PRivate Individual and Couples Counseling
Tailored Workshops - Self Paced
Tailored Relationship Workshops
Your Relationship Is Unique—Your Support Should Be Too.
Cookie-cutter solutions don’t work for something as personal as your relationship. That’s why our Tailored Couples Workshops are built around you.
We start with an in-depth relationship assessment and follow up with periodic interviews to design interactive, impactful workshops that meet your specific needs. Whether you’re looking to improve communication, reignite intimacy, or strengthen teamwork, we adapt each session to help you grow closer and thrive—together.
What to expect:
Cookie-cutter solutions don’t work for something as personal as your relationship. That’s why our Tailored Couples Workshops are built around you.
We start with an in-depth relationship assessment and follow up with periodic interviews to design interactive, impactful workshops that meet your specific needs. Whether you’re looking to improve communication, reignite intimacy, or strengthen teamwork, we adapt each session to help you grow closer and thrive—together.
What to expect:
- Customized content based on your relationship profile
- Flexible formats: in-person, virtual, or hybrid
- Measurable progress through ongoing feedback
Dating Assignments
Let's Have The Conversation: Is the Dating Assignment Class Good for Me?
For committed or married relationships, sometimes a couple's relationship experiences can be encumbered by routines and demands that take away from the couples' experience. As a result, they find themselves lacking the emotional and intimate connections that they experienced when they were dating. The Dating Assignment is geared towards assisting couples to rediscover that aspect of dating that got lost in the demands of life.
Membership
Happy Marriage Pact has a membership option that will allow you to schedule with the therapist when you are needing an appointment while at the same time providing you with relationship supports that you can access at your discretion. There are also more advanced plans depending upon your needs in your relationship development process.
Do i have to be in a relationship to join?
No. Happy Marriage Pact is as much about individual preparation for marriage as it is about supporting a couple in their relationship development.
How much does it cost?
Happy Marriage Pact Couples Support Options:
Membership: $100, access to eBooks, Marital affirmations, Declarations, Video Resources, Invitations to Join Live Discussions, Access to appointments on a priority basis.
3 Month Support: $2500
Initial Interview, Period Progress Assessments, Access to eBooks, relationship exercises, Marital Affirmations, Dating Assignments, Periodic Skills Review, Declarations, Video Resources, 1-1 Counseling Sessions, Couple Counseling sessions, Dating Assignments, Invitations to Join Live Discussions, Access to appointments on a priority basis.
6 Months Support $4500
Initial Interview, Period Progress Assessments, Access to eBooks, relationship exercises, Marital Affirmations, Dating Assignments, Periodic Skills Review, Declarations, Video Resources, 1-1 Counseling Sessions, Couple Counseling sessions, Invitations to Join Live Discussions, Access to appointments on a priority basis, On call support
Membership: $100, access to eBooks, Marital affirmations, Declarations, Video Resources, Invitations to Join Live Discussions, Access to appointments on a priority basis.
3 Month Support: $2500
Initial Interview, Period Progress Assessments, Access to eBooks, relationship exercises, Marital Affirmations, Dating Assignments, Periodic Skills Review, Declarations, Video Resources, 1-1 Counseling Sessions, Couple Counseling sessions, Dating Assignments, Invitations to Join Live Discussions, Access to appointments on a priority basis.
6 Months Support $4500
Initial Interview, Period Progress Assessments, Access to eBooks, relationship exercises, Marital Affirmations, Dating Assignments, Periodic Skills Review, Declarations, Video Resources, 1-1 Counseling Sessions, Couple Counseling sessions, Invitations to Join Live Discussions, Access to appointments on a priority basis, On call support
Do you take insurance?
Individual and Couples counseling sessions may be covered by your insurance depending on your eligibility and benefits. We will help you verify this information prior to your appointment. Not all services offered by Happy Marriage Pact are covered by insurance.
- Blue Care Network
- Blue Cross
- Blue Links
- Blue Shield
- BlueCross and BlueShield
- Cigna
- Health Choice
- Healthcare Highways
- MHNet Behavioral Health
- Magellan
- Optum
- Out of Network
Call to verify coverage (405)821-8182
About the founder of Happy Marriage Pact
Calvin Smith is a licensed to provide therapy in multiple states. He is also an Ordained as a Christian Counselor in the state of Oklahoma providing premarital counseling to couples focused on becoming one with each other through Christ in marital union. He has worked in psychiatric hospitals, residential treatment centers, taught in colleges and universities, worked as the employee assistance consultant for organizations, and served as a military family life counselor for all four branches of the military. He has managed this private practice while working for various companies along the way. Having three Master's degrees including a master's degree in Christian counseling, Industrial/Organizational Psychology, and Rehabilitation Psychology he has integrated this knowledge base to provide a multidisciplinary approach to supporting the relational and mental health needs of his clients. His comprehensive training includes Family/Divorce Mediation Training from DuPage University in Illinois, Batterers Intervention Training, Anger Management Training, and Marital Enhancement and Reconciliation Training.
He has over 20 years of experience in counseling and has helped many people through their challenges.
He has over 20 years of experience in counseling and has helped many people through their challenges.
Specialties Include:
Issues
Mental Health
- Anxiety
- Depression
- Codependency
- Relationship Issues (Infidelity, Loss of Connection, Communication, Intimacy, Anger, Health Issues, Work-Life Balance, etc)
- Pre-Marital Counseling,
- Couples Counseling
- Marital Counseling
- Divorce Counseling
- Military Family Life Therapy Services
Issues
- ADHD
- Anger Management
- Autism
- Behavioral Issues
- Bipolar Disorder
- Career Counseling
- Child or Adolescent
- Christian Counseling, Couples Issues
- Coping Skills
- Divorce
- Domestic Violence
- Dual Diagnosis
- Emotional Disturbance
- Family Conflict
- Grief
- Infidelity
- Learning Disabilities
- Life Coaching
- Life Transitions
- Marital and Premarital
- Men's Issues
- Parenting
- Peer Relationships
- Relationship Issues
- School Issues
- Self Esteem, Self Image
- Sleep or Insomnia
- Spirituality
- Stress
- Work Issues, Employee Assistance
Mental Health
- Impulse Control Disorders
- Mood Disorders
What times are available for counseling?
Daytime, evening, and weekend appointments are available based on scheduling.
Do you offer TeleHealth?
Tele-Health Counseling
Yes. All counseling services are coordinated through our HIPPA Compliant platform. This allows you to have confidentiality and accessibility where you have a wifi access, a computer or smart phone.
Common Issues Couples seek Counseling for:
- Communication Issues
- Conflict Resolution Problems
- Emotional Disconnection
- Intimacy & Sexual Concerns
- Trust & Betrayal
- Financial Strain
- Parenting Conflicts
- Role Imbalances
- Life Transitions
- Mental Health & Addiction
- Spiritual & Value Misalignment
- Family Conflict
- Health/Medical Rehabilitation Challenges
Approach to Counseling and support
Treatment Approaches
Types of Therapy
Modality
Types of Therapy
- Anger/Depression /Grief-Loss
- Christian Counseling
- Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
- Culturally Sensitive
- Eclectic
- Family Systems
- Gestalt
- Marital/Couple Issues
- Motivational Interviewing
- Multicultural
- Person-Centered
- Rehabilitation Psychology
- Relational
- Solution Focused Brief (SFBT)
- Strength-Based
- Gottman
Modality
- Individuals
- Couples
- Family
Common Communities serviced
Communities
- Aviation Professionals
- Corporate
- Education
- Engineering
- IT
- Military
- Health Care
- Law Enforcement
- Christian Faith and Church
- College Student Population
- Senior
- African American, Latino, White, Indian, African, Asian
Supporting Small Business and Corporations
Work life balance can be challenging especially with the hurdles of health, changing expectations of work, dispositions of employees, and marital/family demands. Let's face it, relationships can be challenging. Happy Marriage Pact offers relationship resources that will help identify unmet needs, communicate them effectively, and practice in a safe environment skills for lasting desirable change.
Call for more information on how to get started today (405)821-8182 or email: [email protected].
- Happy Marriage Pact offers corporate retreats, work-life balance groups, and personal counseling centered around resolving personal challenges to relationship experiences.
- Anger management, anxiety management and relationship skill building available through this service option at the team, couple and individual levels where legal is not applicable.
Call for more information on how to get started today (405)821-8182 or email: [email protected].
Let's continue your process by setting an appointment to discuss your relationship experiences. Once you have completed your contact form you will be contacted by a representative to understand your needs in more detail to determine the services that best suit your needs. You can also schedule directly at 405-821-8182.
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