After Several Heart Breaks can you love again?
My Answer: Yes. It is possible. Love is not anchored in one chance to get it right. It is as possible as the heart that will allow itself to love again. Of course the ability to see past our pains and disappointments can be a cumbersome hurdle that challenges our awareness on any number of levels. That is why I think it helps to think of God’s love as an anchor point for the love we extend to others as well as the filter to understand the actions received by others . The fallible heart has an infallible standard...love. Love is not out of anyone’s reach, I like to look at it like this....it washes over us like water over a rock on a beach.
We were born with the capacity to love, though some learn to express it differently than others, the effects of love can’t be written off because of heart breaks. It’s like eating an incredible dish that though you try to forget it’s memory the taste of it will haunt you. Love is much more than an emotion. It is a force. Can a person love again after several heart breaks? Yes. Through education and training one can learn to clarify between what is and isn’t love. It can shorten the distance between our heart and the one we meet. It puts fear back in it’s place and releases the creative potential of us in relationship. So yes indeed, we can love again in spite of several heart breaks.
Bottom line to this question I believe is this...We have to do the work of relationship if we want the benefits of relationship. (Calvin)
Is your relationship struggling? Would you like to set up an appointment for your relationship?
Call my office (405)748-0091.
Calvin Smith, MA, LPC
Ordained Christian Counselor
Center for Life Management, LLC
“Online Telehealth Services to support you where your at.”
We were born with the capacity to love, though some learn to express it differently than others, the effects of love can’t be written off because of heart breaks. It’s like eating an incredible dish that though you try to forget it’s memory the taste of it will haunt you. Love is much more than an emotion. It is a force. Can a person love again after several heart breaks? Yes. Through education and training one can learn to clarify between what is and isn’t love. It can shorten the distance between our heart and the one we meet. It puts fear back in it’s place and releases the creative potential of us in relationship. So yes indeed, we can love again in spite of several heart breaks.
Bottom line to this question I believe is this...We have to do the work of relationship if we want the benefits of relationship. (Calvin)
Is your relationship struggling? Would you like to set up an appointment for your relationship?
Call my office (405)748-0091.
Calvin Smith, MA, LPC
Ordained Christian Counselor
Center for Life Management, LLC
“Online Telehealth Services to support you where your at.”